These two may start out like a house on fire, but it won't
take long for the fire to burn out. Aries's venturesome spirit and wandering eye inflame
Cancer's jealousy. And Cancer is too easily hurt by Aries's aggressiveness and sharp
tongue. Cancer likes security and domesticity; Aries needs freedom to explore new worlds.
Cancer wants to cherish and protect a lover, an attitude that Aries finds too
claustrophobic. Both like money, but Aries wants to spend it and Cancer wants to keep it.
Too many temperamental problems here.
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CANCER AND TAURUS
Both need security and a sense of permanence, and both are
loving, affectionate, and passionate as well. Cancer adds a dash of imagination to
Taurus's otherwise staid approach to sex. Taurus is possessive and that's just fine with
clinging Cancer. Both are acquisitive moneymakers, and together they enjoy the delights of
hearth and home. Taurus likes being catered to, and Cancer is the one to do it.
Steady-going Taurus is also good for Cancer's moodiness. What each needs the other
CANCER AND GEMINI
Gemini's sparkle immediately intrigues Cancer, but Cancer
won't find security with fickle, fly-by-night Gemini. Basically, Cancer's nature is
emotional and Gemini's is cerebral, and that makes it difficult for them to understand
each other. Although sexual energies are well matched, Cancer will have a hard time
adjusting to Gemini's playful, nonchalant attitude toward love. Possessive Cancer will try
to keep Gemini hemmed in, and Gemini can't abide that. It's a short countdown to the
CANCER AND CANCER
They have a lot in common, and that's the trouble. They
understand each other perfectly and can wound each other without even trying. Both are too
sensitive, too demanding, too dependent. Cancers are obsessively concerned with their
emotional psyches: Each needs an enormous amount of attention, coddling, and reassurance,
and resents the other for not giving enough. On the plus side, they're sensual bedmates
whose erotic imaginations are sparked by each other. But that's rarely enough. This
treadmill goes nowhere.
CANCER AND LEO
Cancer has to get used to Leo's extroverted exuberance.
Otherwise, generous, openhearted, strong Leo is just what insecure Cancer is looking for
Cancer's marvelous intuitions tell It exactly how to handle proud and flamboyant Leo.
Admiration and a lot of flattery are what are needed to keep Leo purring with contentment.
Leo is domineering in the bedroom and a little too forthright sexually for Cancer. But
Leo's sunny disposition is a wonderful antidote for Cancer's moodiness.
CANCER AND VIRGO
Cancer's responses are emotive while Virgo's are analytical,
but their personalities mesh so well that it doesn't seem to matter. Cancer may have to
warm up Virgo a little, but there is fire under the ice. This can turn into a secure,
comfortable, and affectionate relationship. Cancer's struggle for financial security works
perfectly with goal-oriented Virgo. Cancer understands Virgo's fussy ways, and steady
Virgo helps balance variable Cancer. Cancer's dependency neatly complements Virgo's need
to protect, and each is anxious to please the other.
CANCER AND LIBRA
This pair operates on entirely different levels: Cancer wants
love to be emotionally transcendent, Libra seeks perfect intellectual communion. Libra has
no sympathy for Cancer's moods, and Cancer is made insecure by Libra's detachment and
shallow emotions. Cancer is too temperamental and possessive for airy Libra. They have a
hard time establishing real sexual rapport, and that exasperates Cancer. They both love a
beautiful home, but Libra also needs parties and people and outside pleasures. When Cancer
turns critical, especially about Libra's extravagance, Libra starts looking elsewhere.
CANCER AND SCORPIO
Cancer's sensuality is ignited by Scorpio's dynamic passions,
and because Cancer is loyal, Scorpio's jealousy isn't provoked. Cancer's possessiveness
will actually make Scorpio feel secure. Cancer admires Scorpio's strength while Scorpio
finds a haven in Cancer's emotional commitment. Both are extremely intuitive and sense
what will please the other. Together they can build a happy cocoon where they feel safe
and loved. This relationship has great intimacy, intensity, and depth. Things just get
better all the time.
CANCER AND SAGITTARIUS
Outgoing Sagittarius can open intellectual vistas for
imaginative Cancer, but unfortunately Sagittarius won't give Cancer the security in love
that it always needs. Cancer's jealousy is aroused by Sagittarius's flighty, faithless
ways; Sagittarius is bored by Cancer's dependency. Sagittarius likes to wander, while
Cancer is a stay-at-home. Cancer's commitment to total togetherness only makes Sagittarius
desperate to get away. In addition, outspoken Sagittarius's bluntness continually wounds
sensitive Cancer. Better friends than lovers.
CANCER AND CAPRICORN
There's an initial sexual attraction because they are a
polarity in the zodiac. If they can overcome their opposites in temperament, they can make
a winning combination. But career-oriented Capricorn has too many other interests to give
Cancer all the attention it needs. Cancer is shy, sensitive, and needs affection, while
Capricorn is brusque, aloof, and domineering. Cancer takes Capricorn's reserve as a
personal rebuff, and becomes moody and critical. The differences may prove too great for
CANCER AND AQUARIUS
Cancer's warm, responsive nature is chilled by Aquarius's
cool self-possession. In turn, Cancer's clinging, cloying demonstrativeness makes Aquarius
feel hemmed in. Aquarius is quick-minded, unpredictable, apt to be impatient with
cautious, hesitant Cancer. And thin-skinned Cancer is easily hurt by Aquarius's caustic
humor. Cancer doesn't understand Aquarius's essential detachment. Cancer needs to feel
close and secure; Aquarius is a lone wolf. Sex may be all right, but there's little else
going for them.
CANCER AND PISCES
This is an affectionate, sensitive couple who will bolster
each other's ego. Pisces is an imaginative dreamer but Cancer is an imaginative worker-and
together they can make their dreams a reality. Pisces provides romance in Cancer's life,
and Cancer is the all-protective lover Pisces needs. Both are emotional, intensely
devoted, sensitive to each other's moods. They'll hit it off in the boudoir, for both are
responsive sexually. Cancer has to take the lead but Pisces is a very willing, erotic
follower. A harmonious match.